{"id":3590,"date":"2025-11-02T13:52:12","date_gmt":"2025-11-02T12:52:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/?p=3590"},"modified":"2025-11-02T13:52:15","modified_gmt":"2025-11-02T12:52:15","slug":"elvira-zeneli-vajza-problematike-e-shkolles-tone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/2025\/11\/02\/elvira-zeneli-vajza-problematike-e-shkolles-tone\/","title":{"rendered":"Elvira Zeneli : Vajza “problematike” e shkoll\u00ebs ton\u00eb!"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Elvira Zeneli<\/div>\n
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Vajza “problematike” e shkoll\u00ebs ton\u00eb!<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Kishte mbi tre muaj q\u00eb kishte filluar shkolla. At\u00eb dit\u00eb m\u00eb erdhi n\u00eb drejtori m\u00ebsuesja e klas\u00ebs s\u00eb tret\u00eb fillore, e cila dukej gjith\u00eb nerva. Me shum\u00eb mir\u00ebsjellje e pyeta si ishte dhe \u00e7far\u00eb halli kishte.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Megjith\u00ebse e m\u00ebrzitur ajo mu p\u00ebrgjigj me nj\u00eb ton t\u00eb but\u00eb, me t\u00eb cilin mundohej t\u00eb fshihte zem\u00ebrimin: \u201dKam nj\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebse t\u00eb padurueshme n\u00eb klas\u00eb, sjelljet e saj jan\u00eb si provokuese, jonormale dhe ma ka sjell\u00eb n\u00eb maj\u00eb t\u00eb hund\u00ebs.\u201d<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Pasi e d\u0113gjova me qet\u00ebsi deri n\u00eb fund, e pyeta:\u201dCili \u00ebsht\u00eb problemi i saj?\u201d<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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M\u00ebsuesja:\u201dSa her\u00eb q\u00eb bisedon m\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit e tjer\u00eb, u afrohet shum\u00eb pran\u00eb fytyr\u00ebs, gj\u0113 e cila i m\u00ebrzit f\u0113mij\u00ebt me k\u00ebt\u00eb veprim. Edhe kur flet me mua, e nh\u00ebjta gj\u00eb m\u00eb afrohet pran\u00eb fytyr\u00ebs. I kam k\u00ebrkuar, disa her\u00eb, q\u00eb t\u00eb ruaj\u00eb nj\u00eb distanc\u00eb mes saj dhe personave t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, por pa asnj\u00eb lloj rezultati.\u201d<\/div>\n
Ela ishte nj\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebse e re n\u00eb shkoll\u0113n ton\u00eb. E ardhur nga nj\u00eb qytet i vog\u00ebl verior, familja e saj ishte vendosur n\u00ea kryeqytet.<\/div>\n
I them m\u00ebsueses t\u00eb ma sjell\u00eb n\u00eb zyr\u00eb dhe ajo erdhi. Fola me t\u00eb p\u00ebr disa minuta. Mu duk nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb shum\u00eb e dashur, e zgjuar dhe sikur kishte nj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim t\u00eb madh n\u00eb shpirt, t\u00eb cilin mundohej ta fshihte, e t\u00eb mos e tregonte. N\u00eb fillim t\u00eb bised\u00ebs nuk tregoi asnj\u00eb interes, por pasi i zgjata nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr t\u00eb bukur, u afrua me ndrojtje pran\u00eb meje dhe m\u00eb preku n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb, buz\u00ebqeshi dhe u largua.<\/div>\n
At\u00eb \u00e7ast e ndjeva se duhej t\u00eb flisja me prind\u00ebrit e saj, sepse kishte di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk shkonte me k\u00ebt\u00eb lloj sjellje. M\u00ebnyra se si komunikonte me bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00ebt e saj dhe me m\u00ebsuesen, ishte provokuese dhe e pap\u00ebrshtatshme.<\/div>\n
M\u00eb rrinte mendja tek takimi q\u00eb kisha t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen me prind\u00ebrit e saj.<\/div>\n
Erdhi momenti, isha b\u00ebr\u00eb gati t\u00eb pres prind\u00ebrit e saj, teksa me mendje bluaja skenar\u00eb nga m\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshmit. Ajo vajz\u00eb mund t\u00eb ishte pjes\u00eb e nj\u00ea dhune n\u00ea familje t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb saj.<\/div>\n
Prind\u00ebrit mund ta mohonin k\u00ebt\u00eb, por kjo s\u2019do t\u00eb kalonte leht\u00eb. Duke pritur n\u00eb zyr\u00eb m\u00eb vinin mendime nga m\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshmet, n\u00eb \u00e7ast trokiti dera dhe u duk babai i nx\u00ebn\u00ebses s\u00eb klas\u00eas s\u00ea tret\u00eb, e cila ishte b\u00ebr\u00eb problematike.<\/div>\n
U p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndet\u0113m dhe n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb dukej i shqet\u00ebsuar q\u00eb ishte thirrur nga un\u00eb. P\u00ebr krahu e mbante e shoqja, n\u00ebna e nx\u00ebn\u00ebses. N\u00eb at\u00eb \u00e7ast, erdhi me vrap drejt t\u00eb atit nx\u00ebn\u00ebsja jon\u00eb dhe iu hodh n\u00eb krah\u00eb, duke i prekur fytyr\u00ebn dhe flok\u00ebt, nj\u00eblloj si\u00e7 b\u00ebnte me bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00ebt e saj dhe m\u00ebsuesen.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Duke e par\u00eb n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb, babai e pyeti bij\u00ebn:\u201dP\u00ebrse na ka thirrur drejtoresha bij\u00eb?\u201d<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Ajo iu p\u00ebrgjigj pafaj\u00ebsisht:\u201dNuk e di,\u201d u afrua pran\u00eb babait, si p\u00ebr tu ndjer\u00eb edhe m\u00eb e sigurt.<\/div>\n
Duke mu drejtuar mua, i ati m\u00eb pyeti:\u201dCili \u00ebsht\u00eb problemi i vajz\u00ebs zonja drejtoresh\u00eb? Un\u00eb v\u00ebrtet jam i verb\u00ebr dhe nuk e shoh me sy vajz\u00ebn time, por me zem\u00ebr dhe mendje ndjek \u00e7do l\u00ebvizje t\u00eb sjellje t\u00eb saj.\u201d<\/div>\n
N\u00eb ato \u00e7aste kuptova gjith\u00e7ka, u sigurova q\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsja komunikonte me bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00ebt e saj, nj\u00eblloj si\u00e7 komunikonte me t\u00eb atin q\u00eb kushte t\u00eb verb\u00ebr, kuptova q\u00eb ajo e kishte marr\u00eb dashurin\u00eb nga duart e babait, nga prekjet e tij plot dashuri e dhembshuri.<\/div>\n
Me nj\u00eb zem\u00ebr t\u00eb r\u00ebnduar nga ndjesia e fajit dhe me nj\u00eb gjuh\u00eb q\u00eb belb\u00ebzoi para se t\u00eb flas\u00eb, iu p\u00ebrgjigja: \u201dNuk ka asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u shqet\u00ebsuar zot\u00ebri. Vajza juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e zgjuar, e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb dhe e dalluar. Doja t\u00eb prezantoheshim edhe me ju si prind\u00ebr sepse jeni shkaku i bot\u00ebs s\u00eb saj t\u00eb pasur.\u201d<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Pasi prind\u00ebrit u larguan t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur, mu desh pak koh\u00eb t\u00eb merrja veten. Sa her\u00eb na ndodh q\u00eb ti gjykojm\u00eb njer\u00ebzit nga ajo q\u00eb shohim, pa ditur asgj\u00eb nga jeta e tyre e p\u00ebrditshme. Jeta nuk i ka ardhur askujt si\u00e7 e ka dashur. T\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb kujdes me sjelljet tona, sepse padashur mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhemi pjes\u00eb e nj\u00eb gjykimi dhe padrejt\u00ebsie.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Elvira Zeneli Vajza “problematike” e shkoll\u00ebs ton\u00eb! Kishte mbi tre muaj q\u00eb kishte filluar shkolla. At\u00eb dit\u00eb m\u00eb erdhi n\u00eb drejtori m\u00ebsuesja e klas\u00ebs s\u00eb tret\u00eb fillore, e cila dukej gjith\u00eb nerva. Me shum\u00eb mir\u00ebsjellje e pyeta si ishte dhe \u00e7far\u00eb halli kishte. Megjith\u00ebse e m\u00ebrzitur ajo mu p\u00ebrgjigj me nj\u00eb ton t\u00eb but\u00eb, me […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3591,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3590","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinione"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3590","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3590"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3590\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3592,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3590\/revisions\/3592"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3591"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3590"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3590"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3590"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}