{"id":3645,"date":"2025-11-16T19:56:53","date_gmt":"2025-11-16T18:56:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/?p=3645"},"modified":"2025-11-16T19:56:56","modified_gmt":"2025-11-16T18:56:56","slug":"kumrie-avdyl-shala-nuk-e-zgjedhim-familjen-por-zgjedhim-si-te-jetojme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/2025\/11\/16\/kumrie-avdyl-shala-nuk-e-zgjedhim-familjen-por-zgjedhim-si-te-jetojme\/","title":{"rendered":"Kumrie Avdyl Shala:  NUK E ZGJEDHIM FAMILJEN, POR ZGJEDHIM SI T\u00cb JETOJM\u00cb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kumrie Avdyl Shala<\/p>\n<div class=\"xdj266r x14z9mp xat24cr x1lziwak x1vvkbs x126k92a\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">NUK E ZGJEDHIM FAMILJEN, POR ZGJEDHIM SI T\u00cb JETOJM\u00cb<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"x14z9mp xat24cr x1lziwak x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">N\u00eb jet\u00eb njeriu mund t\u00eb zgjedh\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra: profesionin, shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb, sht\u00ebpin\u00eb, bashk\u00ebshortin, veshjen, rrug\u00ebn ku ec\u00ebn etj. Por nj\u00eb gj\u00eb nuk mund ta zgjedh\u00eb: familjen ku lind.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Askush nuk zgjedh baban\u00eb, n\u00ebn\u00ebn, v\u00ebllain, motr\u00ebn apo t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb dhurat\u00eb e caktuar nga Zoti.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Shpesh d\u00ebgjoj q\u00eb thuhet: \u201cFamilja \u00ebsht\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka.\u201d<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Po, familja \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb bekim i madh. Por \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb themi p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb nuk e kan\u00eb? Ata q\u00eb iu ka shuar familja? Ata q\u00eb jetojn\u00eb krejt vet\u00ebm? A jan\u00eb m\u00eb pak t\u00eb vlefsh\u00ebm?<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Historia tregon se shum\u00eb individ\u00eb pa familje kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb kontribute t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri, n\u00eb arsim, kultur\u00eb e shtet. Njeriu nuk matet vet\u00ebm me at\u00eb q\u00eb ka, por me at\u00eb q\u00eb jep.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">T\u00eb jetosh p\u00ebr vete \u00ebsht\u00eb detyrim!<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Shpesh d\u00ebgjohet fraza: \u201cUn\u00eb jetoj vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.\u201d<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Por \u00e7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb?<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">A nuk kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb jetojn\u00eb, t\u00eb kontribuojn\u00eb, t\u00eb g\u00ebzojn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb vlefsh\u00ebm n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb?<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Zoti na ka krijuar qenie t\u00eb plota, t\u00eb vlefshme dhe t\u00eb afta p\u00ebr jet\u00eb, me ose pa familje.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Njeriu duhet t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb edhe p\u00ebr veten. T\u00eb shijoj\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij, t\u00eb rritet si shpirt, t\u00eb mos jetoj\u00eb n\u00ebn hijen e paragjykimeve.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Nj\u00eb jet\u00eb kemi. Dhe secili ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb ta jetoj\u00eb me dinjitet.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Forca e njeriut q\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetet te vetja,<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Familja \u00ebsht\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje, por njeriu q\u00eb ec\u00ebn me k\u00ebmb\u00ebt e veta \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe m\u00eb i fort\u00eb.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Kur m\u00ebsohesh t\u00eb mvaresh gjithmon\u00eb tek familja, humb sigurin\u00eb n\u00eb veten t\u00ebnde. Por kur e mban veten, kur merr vendime vet\u00eb dhe i p\u00ebrballon sfidat, b\u00ebhesh m\u00eb i q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm, m\u00eb i pjekur dhe m\u00eb i lir\u00eb.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Jeta nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm brenda pragut t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\u00cbsht\u00eb udh\u00ebtim, aventur\u00eb dhe njohje. Duhet shijuar me kujdes, por pa frik\u00eb.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Paragjykimet, prangat e padukshme<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Paragjykimi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj si mjegulla q\u00eb ia vjedh drit\u00ebn njeriut.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz kan\u00eb frik\u00eb t\u00eb thon\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn, kan\u00eb frik\u00eb t\u00eb shprehin ndjenjat, sepse mendojn\u00eb se do keqkuptohen. Ata heshtin, e ajo heshtje b\u00ebhet \u201cpik\u00eb n\u00eb zem\u00ebr\u201d.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Por e v\u00ebrteta, edhe kur dhemb, n\u00eb fund \u00ebsht\u00eb e \u00ebmb\u00ebl.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Qenia njer\u00ebzore \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e lir\u00eb kur shpreh at\u00eb q\u00eb ndien:<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\u201cDua k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra.\u201d<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\u201cKam nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ty.\u201d<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\u201cM\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihem mir\u00eb.\u201d<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Kur e heq paragjykimin nga koka, ngrihesh m\u00eb lart.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Fillon t\u00eb jetosh p\u00ebr veten, jo p\u00ebr syrin e bot\u00ebs.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Mos u frik\u00ebso t\u00eb shkosh n\u00eb vendet ku ndihesh mir\u00eb, t\u00eb b\u00ebsh at\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb sjell g\u00ebzim.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Le t\u00eb flasin njer\u00ebzit, jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb e jotja, jo e tyre.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Askush nuk ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u2019i shuaj\u00eb \u00ebndrrat tua.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Askush nuk ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb vendos\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb ndjesh.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Kur \u00e7lirohesh nga paragjykimi, gjen paqen.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Dhe paqja \u00ebsht\u00eb forma m\u00eb e lart\u00eb e lumturis\u00eb.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kumrie Avdyl Shala NUK E ZGJEDHIM FAMILJEN, POR ZGJEDHIM SI T\u00cb JETOJM\u00cb N\u00eb jet\u00eb njeriu mund t\u00eb zgjedh\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra: profesionin, shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb, sht\u00ebpin\u00eb, bashk\u00ebshortin, veshjen, rrug\u00ebn ku ec\u00ebn etj. Por nj\u00eb gj\u00eb nuk mund ta zgjedh\u00eb: familjen ku lind. Askush nuk zgjedh baban\u00eb, n\u00ebn\u00ebn, v\u00ebllain, motr\u00ebn apo t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb dhurat\u00eb e caktuar nga [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3646,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3645","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinione"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3645","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3645"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3645\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3647,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3645\/revisions\/3647"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3646"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3645"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3645"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3645"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}