Nga Gladiola Jorbus<\/p>\n
Nuk duhet t\u00eb faj\u00ebsojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt<\/strong><\/p>\n Sot d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb r\u00ebndom shprehjet klishe se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb kan\u00eb ndryshuar, se nuk jan\u00eb mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs, se m\u00ebrziten edhe pse kan\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka. Por un\u00eb besoj se problemi nuk q\u00ebndron tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, por tek ne t\u00eb rriturit. Ne kemi krijuar nj\u00eb bot\u00eb ku gjith\u00e7ka ndodh shpejt, ku teknologjia \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb prezent dhe ku shpesh p\u00ebrpiqemi t\u00eb z\u00ebvend\u00ebsojm\u00eb koh\u00ebn dhe pranin\u00eb, me gj\u00ebra materiale. Kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt marrin gjith\u00e7ka dhe menj\u00ebher\u00eb, ata humbasin aft\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb pritur dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb vler\u00ebsuar. Nga Gladiola Jorbus Nuk duhet t\u00eb faj\u00ebsojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt Sot d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb r\u00ebndom shprehjet klishe se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb kan\u00eb ndryshuar, se nuk jan\u00eb mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs, se m\u00ebrziten edhe pse kan\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka. Por un\u00eb besoj se problemi nuk q\u00ebndron tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, por tek ne t\u00eb rriturit. Ne kemi krijuar nj\u00eb bot\u00eb ku gjith\u00e7ka ndodh shpejt, ku teknologjia […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3684,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3683","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinione"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3683","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3683"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3683\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3685,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3683\/revisions\/3685"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3684"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3683"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3683"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3683"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nPor jemi ne t\u00eb rriturit, ata q\u00eb ua kemi m\u00ebsuar k\u00ebt\u00eb sjellje. Vite m\u00eb par\u00eb, nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb e vog\u00ebl ose nj\u00eb moment i thjesht\u00eb me shok\u00ebt sillte g\u00ebzim t\u00eb madh. Sot, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt marrin disa dhurata nj\u00ebher\u00ebsh dhe s\u00ebrish ndiejn\u00eb boshll\u00ebk. Ne mendojm\u00eb se i b\u00ebjm\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur, por n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb u m\u00ebsojm\u00eb se lumturia blihet.
\n\u00cbsht\u00eb koha t\u00eb ndalojm\u00eb s\u00eb faj\u00ebsuari brezin e ri dhe t\u00eb shohim rolin ton\u00eb. Ne kemi nd\u00ebrtuar shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb, kemi vendosur ritmin dhe kemi zgjedhur stilin e jetes\u00ebs. N\u00ebse duam t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb pse f\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk ndihen mir\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb shohim p\u00ebrtej sjelljes s\u00eb tyre dhe t\u00eb shikojm\u00eb sistemin p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin ne jemi p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs. Kemi krijuar nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri q\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb vrapon t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb; m\u00eb shum\u00eb para, m\u00eb shum\u00eb pushtet, m\u00eb shum\u00eb teknologji. K\u00ebto elemente nuk form\u00ebsojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb, por shpirtra t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuar, t\u00eb bulizuar nga trysnia e paras\u00eb, e markave t\u00eb shtrenjta, e celular\u00ebve t\u00eb fundit etj.
\nNuk jan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt ata q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb, por kultura q\u00eb ne t\u00eb rriturit kemi krijuar. Ne formojm\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen p\u00ebrmes zgjedhjeve tona t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme: si jetojm\u00eb, \u00e7far\u00eb vler\u00ebsojm\u00eb dhe \u00e7far\u00eb konsiderojm\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. N\u00ebse duam f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt, duhet t\u00eb krijojm\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb sigurt.
\nDikur, n\u00eb tradit\u00ebn shqiptare t\u00eb Vitit t\u00eb Ri g\u00ebzoheshim nga \u00e7do dhurat\u00eb, sado e vog\u00ebl t\u00eb ishte: nj\u00eb pal\u00eb \u00e7orape t\u00eb reja, nj\u00eb kartolin\u00eb, nj\u00eb lod\u00ebr e thjesht\u00eb, nj\u00eb portokall a moll\u00eb apo edhe nj\u00eb \u00e7okollat\u00eb, sillnin lumturi t\u00eb madhe. Dhurata nuk kishte vler\u00eb vet\u00ebm materiale, por mbante brenda dashurin\u00eb dhe kujdesin e familjes. Ne e vler\u00ebsonim m\u00eb shum\u00eb, sepse nuk ishte e zakonshme t\u00eb merrje disa gj\u00ebra nj\u00ebher\u00ebsh.
\nKy kujtim na tregon se lumturia nuk vjen nga sasia, por nga kuptimi dhe ndjenja q\u00eb shoq\u00ebron dhurat\u00ebn. N\u00ebse rikthehemi te kjo tradit\u00eb, ku \u00e7do gj\u00eb e vog\u00ebl kishte pesh\u00eb t\u00eb madhe, mund t\u2019u m\u00ebsojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb t\u00eb sot\u00ebm se g\u00ebzimi nuk blihet me shum\u00eb dhurata, por krijohet nga dashuria, koha e kaluar s\u00eb bashku dhe vler\u00ebsimi i gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb thjeshta.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"