{"id":3720,"date":"2025-11-30T18:41:54","date_gmt":"2025-11-30T17:41:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/?p=3720"},"modified":"2025-11-30T18:41:57","modified_gmt":"2025-11-30T17:41:57","slug":"gladiola-jorbus-brezi-i-over-40-vjecareve-ne-kaosin-midis-dy-boteve-i-formuar-nen-trysni-dhe-i-lodhur-nga-amplitudat-e-kohes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/2025\/11\/30\/gladiola-jorbus-brezi-i-over-40-vjecareve-ne-kaosin-midis-dy-boteve-i-formuar-nen-trysni-dhe-i-lodhur-nga-amplitudat-e-kohes\/","title":{"rendered":"Gladiola Jorbus: Brezi i over 40-vje\u00e7ar\u00ebve n\u00eb kaosin midis dy bot\u00ebve, i formuar n\u00ebn trysni dhe i lodhur nga amplitudat e koh\u00ebs"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Gladiola Jorbus<\/p>\n<p><strong>Brezi i over 40-vje\u00e7ar\u00ebve n\u00eb kaosin midis dy bot\u00ebve, i formuar n\u00ebn trysni dhe i lodhur nga amplitudat e koh\u00ebs<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Brezi i sot\u00ebm rreth t\u00eb 40-ave \u00ebsht\u00eb ndoshta nj\u00eb nga brezat m\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb paz\u00ebvend\u00ebsuesh\u00ebm n\u00eb historin\u00eb e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb shqiptare. Ne lind\u00ebm n\u00eb vitet e fundit t\u00eb komunizmit, n\u00eb nj\u00eb sistem t\u00eb mbyllur, me rregulla t\u00eb hekurta, por u rrit\u00ebm n\u00eb kaosin dhe shpres\u00ebn e tranzicionit. Jetuam dy realitete t\u00eb kund\u00ebrta, pa u p\u00ebrgatitur kurr\u00eb p\u00ebr ndryshimet q\u00eb na p\u00ebrplas\u00ebn pas murit. Prandaj sot shum\u00eb prej nesh vuajn\u00eb. Jo sepse jemi t\u00eb dob\u00ebt, por sepse mbajm\u00eb pesh\u00ebn e nj\u00eb epoke t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb mbi shpin\u00eb.<br \/>\nLind\u00ebm n\u00eb stabilitet t\u00eb rrem\u00eb, por u rrit\u00ebm n\u00eb pasiguri t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb.<br \/>\nSi f\u00ebmij\u00eb pam\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb ku gjith\u00e7ka dukej e qart\u00eb: sht\u00ebpia, shkolla, profesioni i s\u00eb ardhmes. Nuk kishte dilema, nuk kishte konkurrenc\u00eb, nuk kishte makth zgjedhjeje. Pastaj, papritur u zhyt\u00ebm n\u00eb tranzicion, n\u00eb munges\u00eb sigurie ekonomike, n\u00eb ndryshim t\u00eb vlerave nga dita n\u00eb dit\u00eb, emigrim i familjar\u00ebve, shembje t\u00eb strukturave q\u00eb dikur jepnin siguri.<br \/>\nN\u00eb vitet \u201990, shum\u00eb prej nesh pan\u00eb prind\u00ebr t\u00eb pap\u00ebrgatitur p\u00ebr bot\u00ebn e re: t\u00eb hutuar, t\u00eb papun\u00eb, t\u00eb pam\u00ebsuar me tregun e lir\u00eb dhe me konkurrenc\u00ebn. K\u00ebshtu, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt u detyruan t\u00eb rriteshin para kohe, t\u00eb ndihmonin n\u00eb ekonomin\u00eb e familjes, t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtateshin vet\u00eb, t\u00eb gjenin rrug\u00ebn n\u00eb nj\u00eb realitet pa rrug\u00eb.<br \/>\nKjo u m\u00ebsoi forc\u00ebn, por edhe lodhjen e brendshme q\u00eb sot e bartin si barr\u00eb. Ky brez u rrit me premtimet e m\u00ebdha t\u00eb viteve \u201990: liri, p\u00ebrparim, mir\u00ebqenie, Evrop\u00eb. Shum\u00eb prej k\u00ebtyre premtimeve u thyen. Ne u gjend\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00eb treg brutal pune, n\u00eb nj\u00eb shtet ende t\u00eb dob\u00ebt, n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri ku meritokracia shpesh humbiste p\u00ebrball\u00eb lidhjeve dhe korrupsionit. Shum\u00ebkujt iu desh t\u00eb luftonte dyfish p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra bazike: arsim, pun\u00eb, strehim, stabilitet. Ne jemi ura nd\u00ebrlidh\u00ebse nd\u00ebrmjet prind\u00ebrve me mentalitet t\u00eb vjet\u00ebr dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb q\u00eb jetojn\u00eb n\u00eb epok\u00ebn digjitale.<br \/>\nJemi brezi q\u00eb ende ndihmon prind\u00ebrit financiarisht, q\u00eb paguajm\u00eb kredi, q\u00eb rrisim f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb t\u00eb pam\u00ebshirshme dhe punojm\u00eb pa pushim.<br \/>\nNe u japim t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve, por askush s&#8217;do t\u00eb na jap\u00eb neve. Sot vuajm\u00eb sepse jemi t\u00eb lodhur dhe kemi jetuar shum\u00eb jet\u00eb brenda nj\u00eb jete t\u00eb vetme. Ne kemi p\u00ebrjetuar nj\u00eb tranzicion t\u00eb gjat\u00eb, pasiguri ekonomike, ankth p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen, munges\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetjeje psikologjike, presion, ndjenj\u00ebn se gjithmon\u00eb duhet t\u00eb provojm\u00eb veten. Ne jemi brezi q\u00eb krahasohet me t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn dhe gjykohet nga e ardhmja. Gjithmon\u00eb n\u00ebn presion. Por ne kemi dhe forc\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe. Ne dim\u00eb t\u00eb mbijetojm\u00eb.<br \/>\nDim\u00eb t\u00eb punojm\u00eb, t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatemi, t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojm\u00eb nga hi\u00e7i, t\u00eb ruajm\u00eb vlerat njer\u00ebzore.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gladiola Jorbus Brezi i over 40-vje\u00e7ar\u00ebve n\u00eb kaosin midis dy bot\u00ebve, i formuar n\u00ebn trysni dhe i lodhur nga amplitudat e koh\u00ebs Brezi i sot\u00ebm rreth t\u00eb 40-ave \u00ebsht\u00eb ndoshta nj\u00eb nga brezat m\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb paz\u00ebvend\u00ebsuesh\u00ebm n\u00eb historin\u00eb e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb shqiptare. Ne lind\u00ebm n\u00eb vitet e fundit t\u00eb komunizmit, n\u00eb nj\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3678,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3720","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinione"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3720","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3720"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3720\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3721,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3720\/revisions\/3721"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3678"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3720"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3720"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3720"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}