Nga Gladiola Jorbus<\/p>\n
T\u00eb gjith\u00eb thon\u00eb se jan\u00eb t\u00eb hapur, por\u2026 <\/strong><\/p>\n Shpesh flasim se sa t\u00eb hapur dhe tolerant\u00eb jemi, se \u201cnuk gjykojm\u00eb ask\u00ebnd\u201d dhe se komunikojm\u00eb pa problem me k\u00ebdo. Por n\u00ebse do t\u00eb ishim plot\u00ebsisht t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb, do t\u00eb pranonim se diku thell\u00eb, fshihen me kujdes paragjykimet tona. Ato mendime t\u00eb vogla q\u00eb na vijn\u00eb n\u00eb kok\u00eb dhe s\u2019i ndalim dot, q\u00eb na v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb siklet, por megjithat\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si i perceptojm\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb origjin\u00ebn e paragjykimeve t\u00eb tyre. N\u00ebse dikush kthehet pas n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri, shpesh zbulon se shum\u00eb prej tyre jan\u00eb krijuar pik\u00ebrisht at\u00ebher\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb qen\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nj\u00eb i rritur ka th\u00ebn\u00eb rast\u00ebsisht, nj\u00eb m\u00ebsues q\u00eb ka theksuar dallimet, ose nj\u00eb situat\u00eb ku \u00ebsht\u00eb ndier frik\u00eb apo pasiguri. Trauma nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb nj\u00eb ngjarje e madhe; ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb mjaftojn\u00eb p\u00ebrvoja t\u00eb vogla q\u00eb l\u00ebndojn\u00eb si gjemba dhe formojn\u00eb modelin se si e sheh bot\u00ebn. P\u00ebr t\u00eb mos p\u00ebrmendur rolin e fuqish\u00ebm t\u00eb rrjeteve sociale, t\u00eb cilat i ushqejn\u00eb njer\u00ebzit \u00e7do dit\u00eb me p\u00ebrshtypje t\u00eb shpejta dhe p\u00ebrfundime t\u00eb nxituara. Dikush sheh nj\u00eb foto, nj\u00eb video t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr, dhe menj\u00ebher\u00eb pretendon se \u201ce di\u201d si \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb person. Ka edhe nga ata q\u00eb ndikohen nga rr\u00ebfimet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve: nj\u00eb mik q\u00eb ka pasur nj\u00eb eksperienc\u00eb t\u00eb hidhur, nj\u00eb familjar q\u00eb shpreh nj\u00eb mendim paragjykues pa peshuar pasojat. T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto krijojn\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj bagazhi t\u00eb heshtur, t\u00eb cilin shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz e mbartin me vete. M\u00eb e keqja \u00ebsht\u00eb kur njer\u00ebzit udh\u00ebhiqen nga paragjykimet e tyre pa e kuptuar. Arrijn\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrfundime pa analizuar dhe interpretojn\u00eb sjelljet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve sipas k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimit t\u00eb tyre, pa u nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr rrezikshm\u00ebrin\u00eb e k\u00ebtij procesi. N\u00ebse dikush d\u00ebshiron v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb jet\u00eb i hapur, nuk mjafton ta deklaroj\u00eb me z\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb, por duhet t\u00eb g\u00ebrmoj\u00eb brenda vetes: Pse reagoj k\u00ebshtu? Pse ndihem n\u00eb siklet n\u00eb situata t\u00eb caktuara? Pse mendoj se e njoh nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb e kam par\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr pes\u00eb minuta, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb nuk na lidh asgj\u00eb me nj\u00ebri \u2013 tjetrin, as marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie pune, as rrethana t\u00eb tjera sociale? Vet\u00ebm kur njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb guxojn\u00eb t\u00eb pranojn\u00eb paragjykimet e tyre, mund t\u00eb nisin t\u2019i ndryshojn\u00eb ato. Ndoshta at\u00ebher\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebheshin m\u00eb mir\u00ebkuptues, si ndaj t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, ashtu edhe ndaj vetes.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Nga Gladiola Jorbus T\u00eb gjith\u00eb thon\u00eb se jan\u00eb t\u00eb hapur, por\u2026 Shpesh flasim se sa t\u00eb hapur dhe tolerant\u00eb jemi, se \u201cnuk gjykojm\u00eb ask\u00ebnd\u201d dhe se komunikojm\u00eb pa problem me k\u00ebdo. Por n\u00ebse do t\u00eb ishim plot\u00ebsisht t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb, do t\u00eb pranonim se diku thell\u00eb, fshihen me kujdes paragjykimet tona. Ato mendime t\u00eb vogla q\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3498,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3722","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinione"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3722","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3722"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3722\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3723,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3722\/revisions\/3723"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3498"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3722"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3722"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3722"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}