{"id":3881,"date":"2026-01-06T22:21:07","date_gmt":"2026-01-06T21:21:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/?p=3881"},"modified":"2026-01-06T22:21:11","modified_gmt":"2026-01-06T21:21:11","slug":"kumrie-avdyl-shala-kur-pakujdesia-i-le-femijet-vetem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/2026\/01\/06\/kumrie-avdyl-shala-kur-pakujdesia-i-le-femijet-vetem\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00a0Kumrie Avdyl Shala: KUR PAKUJDESIA I L\u00cb F\u00cbMIJ\u0112T VET\u0112M"},"content":{"rendered":"
KUR PAKUJDESIA I L\u00cb F\u00cbMIJ\u0112T VET\u0112M<\/div>\n
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Moskujdesi mund t\u00eb sjell\u00eb pasoja t\u00eb r\u00ebnda dhe t\u00eb pad\u00ebshiruara p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit, m\u00ebsuesit dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. N\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme, nxitimi, lodhja apo pakujdesia na b\u00ebjn\u00eb shpesh t\u00eb harrojm\u00eb gj\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb q\u00eb kemi: f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb.<\/div>\n
Ky rr\u00ebfim \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kujtes\u00eb e dhimbshme, por e domosdoshme. Nj\u00eb ngjarje e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb sh\u00ebrbej\u00eb si thirrje nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimi p\u00ebr \u00e7do prind dhe \u00e7do m\u00ebsues, sepse p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht detyr\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb mision dhe dashuri.<\/div>\n
Posa u ktheva nga puna e dyt\u00eb, parkova makin\u00ebn. P\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7ast, n\u00eb pasqyr\u00ebn an\u00ebsore pash\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb me \u00e7ant\u00eb n\u00eb shpin\u00eb q\u00eb vraponte lart e posht\u00eb trotuarit. Zbrita nga makina dhe fillova ta v\u00ebzhgoja. Ai sorollatej her\u00eb andej, her\u00eb k\u00ebtej, i shqet\u00ebsuar. M\u2019u rr\u00ebqeth trupi dhe mendja m\u00eb shkoi menj\u00ebher\u00eb te f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e v\u00ebllez\u00ebrve dhe motrave t\u00eb mia.<\/div>\n
U afrova ngadal\u00eb, pa e frik\u00ebsuar, dhe i thash\u00eb me but\u00ebsi:<\/div>\n
\u00a0O \u00e7un, eja pak k\u00ebtu, t\u00eb pyes di\u00e7ka.<\/div>\n
Erdhi ngadal\u00eb, i trembur.<\/div>\n
\u00a0He, \u00e7ka po don? m\u00eb tha.<\/div>\n
Mos ki frik\u00eb, o yll, i thash\u00eb. M\u00eb thuaj pse po bredh k\u00ebshtu lart e posht\u00eb?<\/div>\n
Ishte rreth 8\u20139 vje\u00e7. Syt\u00eb iu mbush\u00ebn me lot.<\/div>\n
\u00a0Po pres mamin, m\u00eb tha me z\u00eb t\u00eb dridhur. Po u ba terr\u2026<\/div>\n
Ia p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhela flok\u00ebt dhe e afrova pran\u00eb vetes. E pyeta n\u00ebse kishte ndonj\u00eb num\u00ebr telefoni t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve, por m\u00eb tha se nuk kishte dhe as nuk dinte asgj\u00eb p\u00ebrmend\u00ebsh. E pyeta p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit, p\u00ebr pun\u00ebn e tyre, p\u00ebr sht\u00ebpin\u00eb. Shok\u00ebt e tij kishin ikur t\u00eb gjith\u00eb. Ai kishte mbetur vet\u00ebm pas p\u00ebrfundimit t\u00eb m\u00ebsimit.<\/div>\n
P\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7ast mendova t\u00eb th\u00ebrrisja policin\u00eb, por vendosa t\u00eb prisnim edhe pak bashk\u00eb. Kaluan rreth dhjet\u00eb minuta dhe askush nuk erdhi.<\/div>\n
U p\u00ebrpoqa ta qet\u00ebsoja, ia hoqa frik\u00ebn dhe madje arrita ta b\u00ebja edhe t\u00eb qesh\u00eb.<\/div>\n
\u00a0Ua, ti qenke futbollist si Vokrri! i thash\u00eb.<\/div>\n
\u00a0Kush \u00ebsht\u00eb Vokrri? m\u00eb pyeti.<\/div>\n
Futbollisti m\u00eb i madh q\u00eb ka pasur Kosova.<\/div>\n
Jo, un\u00eb jam si Messi! ma ktheu me krenari.<\/div>\n
\u00a0Ua, sa bukur! T\u00eb lumt\u00eb o boss! i thash\u00eb duke qeshur.<\/div>\n
Filloi t\u00eb err\u00ebsohej.<\/div>\n
\u00a0 \u00a0N\u00ebse t\u00eb \u00e7oj un\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, e di rrug\u00ebn? e pyeta.<\/div>\n
\u00a0 Po, e di, tha.<\/div>\n
Edhe pse isha shum\u00eb e lodhur nga puna dhe n\u00ebna ime e moshuar m\u00eb priste vet\u00ebm n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, nuk munda ta lija f\u00ebmij\u00ebn vet\u00ebm.<\/div>\n
\u00a0Futu n\u00eb makin\u00eb, t\u00eb \u00e7oj un\u00eb, i thash\u00eb.<\/div>\n
Gjat\u00eb rrug\u00ebs mendoja me vete: Nuk jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm f\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb humbin, por edhe prind\u00ebrit q\u00eb harrojn\u00eb.<\/div>\n
Kur u afruam, ai u g\u00ebzua:<\/div>\n
\u00a0 Ajo me dy drita n\u00eb ballkon \u00ebsht\u00eb sht\u00ebpia ime!<\/div>\n
E \u00e7ova deri n\u00eb oborr. I thash\u00eb t\u00eb th\u00ebrriste mamin q\u00eb t\u00eb flisja pak me t\u00eb. Doli fillimisht nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb rreth 14 vje\u00e7, pastaj doli edhe gruaja. Nuk dukej aspak e shqet\u00ebsuar.<\/div>\n
\u00a0 \u00a0Djali juaj kishte mbetur vet\u00ebm te shkolla, i thash\u00eb. Askush nuk erdhi ta merrte, ndaj e solla un\u00eb.<\/div>\n
\u00a0 \u00a0Cila m\u00ebsuese jeni? m\u00eb pyeti.<\/div>\n
\u00a0 \u00a0Nuk jam m\u00ebsuese, zonj\u00eb. Jam qytetare. Rast\u00ebsisht e pash\u00eb djalin tuaj t\u00eb frik\u00ebsuar.<\/div>\n
\u00a0 \u00a0Burri kishte me shku me marr\u00eb, po koka vonuar, tha ajo qet\u00ebsisht.<\/div>\n
M\u00eb hipi gjaku n\u00eb kok\u00eb. Sa pak kujdes!<\/div>\n
E thash m\u00eb vete. Mos e lini m\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn vet\u00ebm, i thash\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb i vog\u00ebl, rrug\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikshme.<\/div>\n
\u00a0 \u00a0 Mos u b\u00ebj merak, ky s\u2019tutet, ma ktheu ajo me nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje t\u00eb ftoht\u00eb.<\/div>\n
\u00a0 \u00a0U largova me zem\u00ebr t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb.<\/div>\n
Kur mb\u00ebrrita n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, n\u00ebna ime e moshuar, 85 vje\u00e7e, q\u00eb jetonte vet\u00ebm m\u00eb mua m\u00eb priste \u00e7do mbr\u00ebmje me ankth m\u00eb doli n\u00eb der\u00eb.<\/div>\n
\u00a0 \u00a0Eh moj bij\u00eb, pse u vonove? m\u00eb tha e shqet\u00ebsuar.<\/div>\n
E p\u00ebrqafova fort dhe i tregova gjith\u00eb ngjarjen. Ajo u p\u00ebrlot.<\/div>\n
\u00a0Hallall t\u00eb qoft\u00eb gjiri q\u00eb ta kam dh\u00ebn\u00eb, moj bij\u00eb, m\u00eb tha me lot n\u00eb sy. Ke b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb sevap t\u00eb madh.<\/div>\n
M\u00eb puthi duart dhe m\u00eb shtr\u00ebngoi pran\u00eb vetes.<\/div>\n
\u00a0Un\u00eb u frik\u00ebsova p\u00ebr ty, edhe pse je e rritur, m\u00eb tha. E ajo n\u00ebn\u00eb nuk u shqet\u00ebsua p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e vet te vog\u00ebl\u2026 Eh moj bij\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb prishur dynjaja. \u00cbsht\u00eb zhdukur dhembja e n\u00ebn\u00ebs p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn\u2026<\/div>\n
E putha n\u00ebn\u00ebn dhe i thash\u00eb:<\/div>\n
\u00a0Do ham\u00eb dark\u00eb bashk\u00eb? Jo, un\u00eb dua vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb kafe, m\u00eb tha. Ti ha, bija ime, t\u00eb ruajt\u00eb Zoti.<\/div>\n
At\u00eb nat\u00eb mendova gjat\u00eb. T\u00eb jesh prind \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi e madhe. Nuk mjafton ta sjell\u00ebsh f\u00ebmij\u00ebn n\u00eb jet\u00eb; duhet ta mbrosh, ta ndjesh dhe t\u00eb kujdesesh p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00e7do dit\u00eb. Kujtimi i sakrific\u00ebs s\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs dhe babait tim m\u00eb forcoi edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bindje.<\/div>\n
Mos i lini f\u00ebmij\u00ebt vet\u00ebm. As p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7ast.<\/div>\n
Kujdesuni p\u00ebr ta me dashuri, sepse dashuria e prindit \u00ebsht\u00eb e shenjt\u00eb dhe gjithmon\u00eb kthehet mbrapsht.<\/div>\n
Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ngjarje e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Nj\u00eb thirrje njer\u00ebzore dhe shpirt\u00ebrore p\u00ebr \u00e7do prind dhe \u00e7do m\u00ebsues: kujdesi p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht detyr\u00eb, por \u00ebsht\u00eb obligim moral dhe dashuri e shenjt\u00eb.<\/div>\n
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SH\u00cbNIM P\u00cbR LEXUESIN<\/div>\n
Kjo q\u00eb keni lexuar \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ngjarje e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, e ndodhur n\u00eb p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebri. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb trillim, as tregim artistik. U publikua me q\u00ebllimin e vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrcjell\u00eb nj\u00eb mesazh nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimi p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit dhe m\u00ebsuesit: f\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk jan\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi vet\u00ebm n\u00eb let\u00ebr, por obligim moral, njer\u00ebzor dhe shpirt\u00ebror.<\/div>\n
KY \u00cbSHT\u00cb NJ\u00cbMESAZH I DREJTP\u00cbRDREJT\u00cb,p\u00ebr ju :<\/div>\n
Prind\u00ebr dhe m\u00ebsues,<\/div>\n
mos i lini f\u00ebmij\u00ebt vet\u00ebm.<\/div>\n
As pas m\u00ebsimit. As n\u00eb pritje. As n\u00eb err\u00ebsir\u00eb.<\/div>\n
Kujdesi p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn dhe nx\u00ebn\u00ebsin nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht detyr\u00eb , \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi,mision i shenjt\u00eb. Nj\u00eb minut\u00eb pakujdesi mund t\u00eb l\u00ebndoj\u00eb nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb .<\/div>\n
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KUR PAKUJDESIA I L\u00cb F\u00cbMIJ\u0112T VET\u0112M Moskujdesi mund t\u00eb sjell\u00eb pasoja t\u00eb r\u00ebnda dhe t\u00eb pad\u00ebshiruara p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit, m\u00ebsuesit dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. N\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme, nxitimi, lodhja apo pakujdesia na b\u00ebjn\u00eb shpesh t\u00eb harrojm\u00eb gj\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb q\u00eb kemi: f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb. Ky rr\u00ebfim \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kujtes\u00eb e dhimbshme, por e […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3628,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3881","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinione"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3881","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3881"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3881\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3882,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3881\/revisions\/3882"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3628"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3881"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3881"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3881"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}