{"id":4219,"date":"2026-05-13T06:32:47","date_gmt":"2026-05-13T05:32:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/?p=4219"},"modified":"2026-05-13T06:32:54","modified_gmt":"2026-05-13T05:32:54","slug":"nga-gladiola-busulla-ne-respekt-te-kujtimit-te-nje-vajze-te-re-dhe-familjes-se-saj","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/migjeni.se\/index.php\/2026\/05\/13\/nga-gladiola-busulla-ne-respekt-te-kujtimit-te-nje-vajze-te-re-dhe-familjes-se-saj\/","title":{"rendered":"Nga Gladiola Busulla: N\u00eb respekt t\u00eb kujtimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb vajze t\u00eb re dhe familjes s\u00eb saj"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nga Gladiola Busulla<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb respekt t\u00eb kujtimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb vajze t\u00eb re dhe familjes s\u00eb saj<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Kur klikimi peshon m\u00eb shum\u00eb se shpirti: Portalet e turpit&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Vdekja, n\u00eb \u00e7do kultur\u00eb dhe qytet\u00ebrim, ka qen\u00eb historikisht nj\u00eb moment reflektimi, heshtjeje dhe respekti. Por n\u00eb epok\u00ebn e &#8220;portaleve djall\u00ebzore&#8221; dhe uris\u00eb s\u00eb pangopur p\u00ebr klikime, ky moment i shenjt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb nj\u00eb cirk makab\u00ebr. Sot, dinjiteti i njeriut nuk p\u00ebrfundon me frym\u00ebn e fundit; ai masakrohet n\u00ebp\u00ebr tituj bombastik\u00eb dhe galeri fotosh q\u00eb shiten p\u00ebr pak qindarka reklamash. Nuk ka asgj\u00eb informative n\u00eb publikimin e emrit t\u00eb plot\u00eb, t\u00eb dh\u00ebnave sensitive apo fotove nga jeta private e dikujt q\u00eb nuk jeton m\u00eb, pa kaluar ende as disa or\u00eb nga tragjedia.<br \/>\nFamilja ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr zi, p\u00ebr heshtje, dhe jo p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn e njeriut t\u00eb tyre t\u00eb dashur t\u00eb rrethuar nga tituj q\u00eb nxisin kureshtjen e s\u00ebmur\u00eb.<br \/>\nNxjerrja e detajeve apo historive personale q\u00eb nuk i sh\u00ebrbejn\u00eb interesit publik, \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb dhunim mbi viktim\u00ebn.<br \/>\nM\u00eb e r\u00ebnda \u00ebsht\u00eb kur k\u00ebto platforma nxisin ose lejojn\u00eb komente ku i ndjeri\/e ndjera apo familja &#8220;gjykohet&#8221;. Lin\u00e7imi publik pas vdekjes \u00ebsht\u00eb akti m\u00eb i ul\u00ebt i frikacak\u00ebve. Nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb mbrohet m\u00eb, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb objektiv lajmesh; \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb meriton drejt\u00ebsi dhe paqe, jo analiz\u00ebn morale, as paragjykimet e nj\u00eb mase q\u00eb nuk e njohu kurr\u00eb.<br \/>\nDuket sikur k\u00ebto portale operojn\u00eb mbi parimin &#8220;sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjak, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb para&#8221; kan\u00eb humbur \u00e7do busull morale. P\u00ebrdorimi i epiteteve apo aludimeve p\u00ebr t\u00eb nxitur kureshtjen \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb fyerje e hapur p\u00ebr familjen q\u00eb p\u00ebrballet me humbjen.<br \/>\nGazetaria q\u00eb nuk ka n\u00eb qend\u00ebr njeriun, por shifr\u00ebn e audienc\u00ebs, \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht propagand\u00eb e sh\u00ebmtuar.<br \/>\nSi duhet t\u00eb reagojm\u00eb ne? Pik\u00ebs\u00ebpari kemi n\u00eb dor\u00eb injorimin, nj\u00eb mjet t\u00eb fort\u00eb. \u00c7do klikim mbi nj\u00eb lajm denigrues \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb &#8220;vot\u00eb&#8221; pro asaj praktike.<br \/>\nMos u b\u00ebj pjes\u00eb e zinxhirit q\u00eb l\u00ebndon familjen apo denigron kujtimin e t\u00eb ndjerit\/\u00ebs.<br \/>\nP\u00ebrdor mjetet e raportimit n\u00eb rrjetet sociale p\u00ebr p\u00ebrmbajtje q\u00eb shkelin dinjitetin njer\u00ebzor.<br \/>\nRespekti p\u00ebr t\u00eb vdekurit \u00ebsht\u00eb mat\u00ebsi i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb i qytet\u00ebrimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb populli. Kushdo q\u00eb p\u00ebrdor dhembjen e tjetrit p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbushur llogarit\u00eb bankare, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb njeri, aq m\u00eb pak gazetar, por ve\u00e7 nj\u00eb gjalles\u00eb e turpshme, nj\u00eb tregtar i mjerimit. T\u00eb vdekurit meritojn\u00eb paqe, nd\u00ebrsa familjar\u00ebt meritojn\u00eb respektin ton\u00eb t\u00eb heshtur, jo v\u00ebzhgimin ton\u00eb gjakftoht\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr ekrane.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nga Gladiola Busulla N\u00eb respekt t\u00eb kujtimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb vajze t\u00eb re dhe familjes s\u00eb saj &#8220;Kur klikimi peshon m\u00eb shum\u00eb se shpirti: Portalet e turpit&#8221; Vdekja, n\u00eb \u00e7do kultur\u00eb dhe qytet\u00ebrim, ka qen\u00eb historikisht nj\u00eb moment reflektimi, heshtjeje dhe respekti. 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